First Steps Into the Hot Wife Lifestyle

If you are thinking about taking your first tentative steps into the hotwife lifestyle, here are some tips for beginners will perhaps find useful in avoiding some of the bigger problems.

First, your man needs to feel emotionally secure and included at ALL TIMES. Once the bucking, heaving and writhing is done, you’ll be kissing and cuddling your lover. That’s natural. But if your husband is present (or imagines it if he’s not – he’s not stupid), then it’s going to play on his emotions.

So she must remember he’ll need reassurance and reaffirmation after she’s done the deed – and after every time she’s done it.

Second, open and HONEST communication is paramount. One problem couples often face is when the women goes off and fucks another man, she, for whatever reason, is reluctant to talk about it – shyness, misplaced guilt, whatever.

But this is not how most men want it. If they’re not actually present watching, the overwhelming likelihood is they’ll want to make love to their wives the minute they walk back in the door while she’s telling him in exquisite detail about every last little detail, leaving nothing out. But for the most part videos, pictures and text are ideal. She can’t have her cake and eat it, and expect her man to be happy about it.

Remember: the hotwife lifestyle is supposed to be fun and beneficial to your marriage.