Inadequet
Before we got into this whole SPH fetish my wife and I took up ballroom dancing. We would have a private lesson every Monday night at 8pm. The couple before us were a,azing dancers. I was amazed of how good they were. But we became great friends and within 2 years we had surpased them in our dancing. One night about 4 years ago we had them over for dinner. My wife and his wifel had a little two much wine and we thought we would all have a session in our hot tub. They had not brought swin suits so with all the drinking they decided to get into the tub naked. My wife and I waited for them and put on our swim suits on got in the tub with them. After a few minutes they said it was unfair that they were naked we should both be the same. My wife and I stripped and then it was very obvious i was lacking in size. I mentioned I think in one of my earlier posts my wife had asked her friend what SPH was. She sent my wife this picture of her husband’s cock and explained what it was. I had seen his cock that night as well as my wife and I did feel short changed. This started the whole SPH acceptance on my part when her friend told her she would allow her husband to fuck her if I would allow it. I had made the suggestion it was okay with me but she slapped me across the face for even bringing it up.
YUP feelings of inadequacy lead to SPH! Embrace your inadequacy!
Maybe your wife is worried that such a thing would lead to you wanting to sleep with other people too. If she new it was just for her and just around your guys’ SPH kink (and nothing else) she may be open. But I could see how a woman would think you were basically looking as opening the door to an open relationship.
I did this guys wife I would consider her on parr with my wife they are both very beuatiful and sexy woman. I did not have any ideas about having sex with her. My wife is more than I can handle as it is. I just thought she would be arroused by his size compared to me. I must admit I was completly wrong. At the time just to much preoccupation on my part that women liked bigger cocks than I had based on my internet trolling. I was very wrong in my
assumptions and understand why she slapped me. .
Should have added one last comment we are still very good friends and go out dancing quite often, Their has never been any discussing on that night or a cock comparison between the two wifes. They always bring their swimsuits over now just in case we want to hot tube.
Interesting. Leaving cock size out of it, she seems to value monogamy which is cool. Good for you guys!
The two wife’s are such good friends and her husband and I get along great. Funny thing is he gets intimidated by my dancing with my wife. He is actually very nervous when I dance with his wife and he feel’s obligated to dance with my wife. Funny how things can be. Yes monogamy is very important to her. We have two daughter’s and I think this plays a big part how she see’s life. I learned my lesson when she slapped me. I have never mentioned it again other than our nights when she see’s fit to get me to completly lose control.
I love the little one. Just sayin’