International Chastity & Strap-on Mistress Alessandra

China Leading Mistress | BDSM Trainer | Dominatrix Alessandra 

I am Shanghai Domme Alessandra

Nationality: Chinese

Birth Year: 1990 

Height: 168cm

Weight: 49kg

Smoke: No

Drink: Socially

Tattoos: No

Languages: Chinese, Cantonese, English and German

Experience: I met first slave in 2008 so I have 16 years of experience in various BDSM practices as the role of foot mistress, chastity domme, pain domme, boot goddess, pegging domme…

Background: If you ask me how I got into BDSM, the answer is simple: I knew very early that domination is in my blood. I grew up in a family where my father is dominant and my mother is submissive. However, I never lose confidence and dominance even though I was awashing in daily belittlement from my misogynist and beta loser father. He tried to shame me into conforming to his narrow views of femininity. I am sorry for him because his brainwashing on me never works! Instead, I embraced my strength and my power. I became a dominant girl, unafraid to take charge and assert myself in any situation. I refused to let anyone else define or limit me based on my gender. You may wonder why I did not become a submissive like my mother. It is possible to question self-value when you spent your childhood with such a misogynist and dictator father. I think partly because dominance is in my blood and partly because I had the right judgment when I was 7 or 8 years old which was I realized he is a total loser.

Introduction: In the amazing city of shanghai, I blend in seamlessly as an average office lady by day. However, beneath the guise of normalcy lies a secret identity that few are privy to – I am the female dominant, a BDSM educator-dominatrix who dominated and practised BDSM on over 500 submissive western men behind closed doors. For me, being a BDSM educator-dominatrix is not just a role to play, but a part of who I truly am. And as I continue to walk the fine line between light and darkness, I know that my journey is far from over – for the world is full of submissive men just waiting to fall under my spell.