Shanghai Dominatrix’s Journal: I Discovered a BDSM drama

In the fabulous BDSM world, where boundaries are pushed, fantasies are explored, and power dynamics are tested, surprises are not uncommon. However, even the most seasoned dominatrix can be caught off guard by the intensity of a situation that challenges what we understand about submission, power, and connection. One such surprise recently unfolded in my own experience, when I discovered that two men I had been intimately involved with in very different ways—one a 52-year-old submissive I had been dominating for months, and the other a 25-year-old man I had recently introduced to the world of sissification—were father and son.

The First Encounter: A Veteran SubmissiveLet’s start with the 52-year-old man who had been a regular submissive in my BDSM sessions. He was no stranger to the lifestyle. He had spent years exploring various aspects of domination and submission, always seeking a deeper, more intense experience. Our sessions had been a constant back-and-forth of control and surrender, a space where he could let go of his everyday persona and submit to my authority completely. He craved humiliation and discipline, the kind that would push him past his limits and allow him to reach new depths of orgasm and self-discovery.

In our sessions, I would subject him to rigorous scenarios—sometimes involving bondage, verbal humiliation, and sometimes physical pain—all crafted to break down the walls of his outwardly strong and independent personality. For him, submission wasn’t just about physical release; it was about psychological freedom. The control I exercised over him was not just a game—it was a gateway to his deeper, often unspoken, needs.

The Newcomer: A Curious SissyFast forward a few months, and I met him, a 25-year-old man who came to me seeking an entirely different experience. His desires were rooted in feminization and the exploration of his submissive side through sissification. He was nervous and unsure at first, but eager to explore the world of BDSM and submission. Our first meeting was a mix of awkwardness and curiosity, but as we delved into the session, his transformation began.

The dynamic was different with son—where father sought degradation, son craved the experience of being humiliated into a feminized version of himself. It wasn’t just about playing dress-up; it was about him losing his identity as a man and being reshaped into a more submissive, feminine persona. He needed to feel small, delicate, and powerless, something that both humiliated him and gave him a sense of freedom in the surrender. The sissy outing, as we called it, was about him embracing his vulnerability and exploring an entirely new form of submission.

Our sessions were a carefully constructed process, allowing the son to explore his newfound femininity and submit to my dominance in a very different way from the father. The contrast between the two men—the son’s youthful submission and father’s seasoned experience—was striking, and each encounter was unique in its emotional and psychological intensity.

I was wondering when they will find out about each other. Perhaps never.